like 1 month ago my man had a girl leave him a message that stated%26quot; hey, J... im here on my break, calling you, seeing what your up to. but call me back when you get a chance, oh and why did you change your number, was it cuz of me..? oh you silly boy...! %26quot; she left him that message. any how after that i decided it wasnt sufficient proof for me to confront him about anything since she really didnt say much.. anyhow, yesterday night i went through his voicemail and someone left him a song in spanish... the song specifically talked about doing it slowly and waking up by your side, also it said, we should keep it on the downlow so my man and your girl wont find out...when i hear that song, being left in his voicemail at 3 am on the night of my birthday i got so frantic, but anyhow, i checked his details to see what phone number that message came from, and i got the phone number and i called it back blocked to see who picked it up, and infact it was a GIRL. that just broke my heart.|||confront them both!!! just dont leave that much time between one another because he or she might phone him or her just to make a story up! why hes hiding from you? why he has passwords? if this dsnt work dump him!|||if you really think he is cheating on you, and it sounds that way to me. Dump him, dont let him cheat on you. if you love him, i dont think he loves you if he is cheating on you. sorry to hear that.|||Call the girl and confront her. It was wrong of you to search his voicemail, but it is even more wrong of him to be recieving these calls and text Tell your man what you did, and how you did it because of your suspicions and how your suspicions turned true. He is cheating honey. A faithful man does not have friends that send those kinds of messages. Be strong.|||yeah he was cheating on you. but hey, it%26#039;s not the end of the world. sure it hurts now but one day you%26#039;ll find a decent man who would do anything for you.|||be prepared to explain yourself. he%26#039;s going to want to know how you got your info. and he has every right to ask. be as honest with him as you want him to be with you.
if you have a gut feeling that he%26#039;s cheating, he very well might be. my intuition has never been wrong about a cheater. so, follow your instincts. you deserve better.|||wow that is definantly a case of infidelity,,,,leave this guy for good dont let him play u for a fool! and if u leave dont go back cause if he did it once shame on him if u let him do it again shame on u and ur makeing urself look like the fool! its not worth the pain! let him go!|||All women have a God given gift called %26quot;Woman%26#039;s Intuition%26quot; Unfortunately, we almost always ignore it...A woman knows when her man is cheating. She can feel it..that%26#039;s why we turn into detectives and try to catch them doing wrong..but we really don%26#039;t have to look for what we already know.|||You should give consideration to writing scripts for soap operas.|||Sounds like you already confronted him.|||I wouldn%26#039;t confront him about anything. He%26#039;s talking to girls. If she%26#039;s leaving that kind of message there%26#039;s got to be more to their relationship. I%26#039;d just break up with him and not give him the chance to turn it around on you. You are going to get your heart broken if you stay with him. Just tell him you know he%26#039;s been talking to girls and you don%26#039;t want to be with him anymore. You don%26#039;t have to say how you know.|||Ring the girl back. Talk to her and find out who she is. But don%26#039;t state that you%26#039;re his GF. Then if he confronts you about it, just say it wasn%26#039;t you and you thought he wasn%26#039;t talking to any girls anyway. Also say what voicemail message and can you listen to it. If he gets defensive or starts to turn the tables and starts blaming you for this then you know he is cheating.
Or you could just come outright like i did with my boyfriend with that stupid myspace website. He was messaging other girls while with me saying that they were pretty and good looking. He was also getting messages from a Lesbian girl he knows of topless women. I fliped out and he admitted it straight away. We seem to be ok at the moment. I mean We%26#039;ve worked through it. It%26#039;s taken 4 months to trust him again but i can say I am starting to again and want to make it work with him as i love him and for my childs benefit.
So just confront him if you are as strong as me. So what that you know his password? I knew my boyfriends myspace password. He was hurt but the fact he had done the cheating hurt him more.
Good luck with what you do and keep us posted.|||You sound to have alot of evidence on your man. HAVE YOU TOLD him how you feel and what you expect he%26#039;s up to? He may lie and deny but if you have such proof, he will be trapped and may just tell you all. Its sad that this could happen to you. Just try getting the truth out of him. I do hope he isnt cheating and all will be ok. ((hug)) Take care hon|||Good morning...I%26#039;m making sausages.
This is good drama with my coffee.
Why would she say %26quot; very very good friends%26quot;? I think she knows about you...but why would she want to imply that there is something going on if he probably already coached her to say they are friends....Sounds like a hater in the works...so ask him whatsup, feel him out...if u really feel like something aint right there, then let that go..|||he%26#039;s cheating. you already have enough proof maybe he feels he can get away with it and wants to have a few flings.usually pregnat woman are not into sex during or toward the end or right after pregnacy,but thats not your fault he shouid be preparing to be a great dad and supporting you while keeping his penis in his pants. he knows your in the house all the time being good and has no idea you%26#039;ll find out. dont tell him about knowing his password.you dont want to catch an std so either dump him for good or confront him and let him know if he continues to cheat its over.
