Scenario: A chick receives a phone number from a guy. If she calls on day one, she will seem desperate. If she calls on day two, she will appear as if her interest is too strong and still desperate. However, if she waits until day three, she appears genuinely interested, and not clingy or needy. However, if she waits til day four she%26#039;s a ***** that is only interested in the booty or a gold-digger.
ok so we%26#039;ve already decided on day three however the questions are whens on day three, text or actual phone call (and do you want it to go straight to voicemail or not if you decide calling), and what do you say?!?
My friend Sheca says wait til the evening of day 3 and text %26quot;thought I wasn%26#039;t gonna text you huh%26quot; (I think thats a little on the cocky side and borderline bitchy)
My friend Mia says: if you wait till day three, call and just be like %26quot;hey what%26#039;s up? was thinking i may go out for a drink tonight, care to join me?%26quot; there is nothing wrong with being forward, if it goes to voice mail, same thing just leave your number and ask for HIM to give ya a CALL back, if you are not comfortable calling first, text the above message and ask him to CALL you if he wants to grab a drink, side note: if one of the parties does not drink, change it to a coffee.... but talking is VERY important, don%26#039;t get trapped into a %26quot;text relationship%26quot; right off the bat, that%26#039;s never good, someone needs to prove they have some balls!!! lol!! (still don%26#039;t know what time I should and since the 3rd day is a tuesday don%26#039;t know if he can get away 4 drinks)
My Mom says call at noon and just say, %26quot;Hello, how are you?%26quot; (I think that will make me look sprung and frighten him away)
Sooo.... help a girl out that hasn%26#039;t played this game since 2004!!!!!|||i think it might be best to wait for the guy to do it..being a little old fashioned doesnt hurt..it makes you seem more hard to get like you have other things to do besides wait for his phone call/text all day long. But, if you want to be forward wait a few days 3/4 and then send him a text or call him... I hate how guys do that stupid 3 day rule stuff if you like a girl show her and call her up the next day..we lose interest pretty quickly if the guy doesn%26#039;t act. hope I helped..Good Luck.|||your the girl i don%26#039;t think you have to wait. i was told guys are the ones supposed to wait. so call when you want to! =)
