Seriously, i want to know. My husband met a woman in a bar 8 years ago. In 2000. They switched phone numbers and talked on and off about nothing really for a few years. Never slept together, never held hands, nothing. She is married to a man who is in Iraq now fighting. She lives in Virginia, we live in Louisiana. They have not talked in a year at least. Last conversation was %26quot;happy holidays, how are your kids......%26quot; Now she is sending texts saying she loves him and will buy him a plane ticket to come visit. He changed his phone number, she paid some search website to get it again. I have told her this offends me, and I am getting pissed off with her disrespect. She says she does not care, she knows she is meant to be with my husband! So i took it to the next level, looked up her myspace and sent all 89 friends a message saying that she is a nasty homewrecker that will not give up on MY husband, asking them to please enlighten her husband if he is not aware. She still has not stopped!|||kill the *****|||File a stalking charge against her.|||was your husband married to you at the time they exchanged numbers? he is the one who can take a restraining order out on her. she%26#039;s harrassing him and he has all the evidence that he needs. so what%26#039;s the hold up....?|||tell her to F*** off
tell her that you will fly over there instead of your husband and kick her a**|||I just love it when people behave badly and then tell everyone about God, as if that somehow excuses their bad behavior.
Try ignoring her instead of fanning the flame and have your husband do the same. Eventually, she will stop if she is getting no response from either of you.|||You can press charges on her.
You can beat her ***.
You can hire a hit man.
But I%26#039;d suggest letting it go. If he really loves you, then it shouldn%26#039;t matter. If he continues to talk to her, he obviouslly doesn%26#039;t care how you feel.
He%26#039;s the one married to you, not her. He should be worried about your feelings, but she has no obligation to your emotions.
Once her husband returns, she won%26#039;t be lonely anymore and she%26#039;ll leave your family alone. If she doesn%26#039;t, you can always tell him about it.|||Other than doing something illegal that would cause you to serve time in prison there is not much you can do!
Call the police but they will tell you until she brakes the law they can%26#039;t do anything. and this is way down on the bottom of there list of things to work on!
GOOD LUCK YOU WILL NEED IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!|||Why are YOU having to do anything?!? Why isn%26#039;t your husband doing something? Why doesn%26#039;t your husband file a restraining order against her?|||Change your email addresses and make your phone number private and tell your husband to stop exchanging phone numbers with strange, stalker-like women.|||The problem is not yours to resolve. It is your husband%26#039;s problem, and he%26#039;s the one who needs to address it.
He might have a case for harassment/stalking against her. However, given the fact that you%26#039;ve interfered in a not-so-mature and public fashion (messaging her myspace contacts), she may very well have the same on you.|||I agree with Granny. Plus, I am not sure that taking it to the next level should have included going to her myspace and sending a message to each of her friends... you have your man and he is in LA with you. Contact local authorities and let them know you are being harassed/ stalked via text messages and emails and once she is notified that you have taken it to the police and she is told not to contact you anymore, if she does, you can press criminal charges against her. That is really all you can do. Good luck, Hon. I hope things work out for you.|||First of all, stop responding to her. She is like a child who needs attention. She has yours and your husbands attention so she is happy. Second, I just think that your husband may have told her what she wanted to hear. Or she could be just that crazy. You do need to find out both sides of the story. Don%26#039;t feed into her foolishness. You be the grown up about this situation and let her be the crazy one.|||Why are you contacting her? Your husband was the one who flirted with her (otherwise she never would have shown interest) and he exchanged numbers to start with. You say she paid some search website to get his number, are you sure he did not give it to her? You could easily have your number unlisted so that she could not find it or you could have her number blocked. But instead of going this route, you are going out of your way to contact her and by doing that you stir this up and keep things going.
No offense honey, but grow up and move on. Stop all contact with her. Get your number unlisted, or block her number. If she finds some other way to contact you, get a restraining order. Having the court involved will get her husbands attention and will also prove whether or not your husband is telling the truth. But YOU need to stay out of it. All you are doing is adding fuel to the fire.|||Tell her to fu*k off, that%26#039;s what I would do. Or if you have a dog , tell him to bit her on the a**. I wish I could help, but she sounds like a luney tune. Call a mental health office, tell them about her. Maybe they%26#039;ll lock her in a mental institute.
Good Luck
I hope you can resolve your problem. =)|||Report her to the authorities for harassment as well as the mental health board. Get her relative%26#039;s number in the area and tell them you will charge and sue her and report her to her parole officer if she doesn%26#039;t leave you and your husband alone.|||I would file harassment charges against this woman and document every phone call that she makes to our home. I would prosecute this woman to the fullest extent of the law if disrupts my life in any way. Personally your husband could have made it clear to her from him that he hates her guts and to never ever contact him or his family again. This woman must have some severe mental problems and I would be very careful that she doesn%26#039;t try to get revenge on any of you. Let your local police know the problem that you are having and ask them to keep a close watch on your home and family. Start a paper trail against this idiot and put every possible means against her to make it stop.|||Having worked with crazies for 28 years,not too many surprises in that arena of life. Here how you play her game,You Don%26#039;t, but that is what you two are doing right now. You ex nor any and all communication with her,that is when she just might get the message to kiss-off. Try that,as it does work in most cases.|||On the real..it sounds like this lady and your husband may of had alittle more than he claims, You may need to get on HIM to change your email address, and phone number again, again, until it stops, Were you married when they met! How%26#039;d she know you had kids, it seems like shes too close to not have been close (get it ). Don%26#039;t let this rack your brains, cause they will have you going crazy. Put your foot down with your husband, I bet he can get rid of her--hay if she really wasnt close to him..label it stalking, and get rid of her. Good Luck|||Just tell me.. do you really love your betraying husband? Or is it that you don%26#039;t want to go down and give-up forsake of another woman? Life is not a play, there won%26#039;t be a director like in films to create happy endings. Just face this fact! Do you think that your husband loves you enough? Well there can be a explanation for him to behave like this... the only way to stop her is in your husband%26#039;s hand.. he has to choose between you and her!! She%26#039;s showing her powers to you coz she know that your husband is in her side. Well the other fact is that... even if you save your husband from the woman... do you think that both of you will have a trustworthy life together without suspecting each other? If you have already have kids and all... you should try to protect him from her... but then again you should do a serious agreement with him! Otherwise no point fighting to get someone who don%26#039;t love you enough.... I am sorry to tell you these..but this is the fact!|||Stop responding to her. Have your husband send her a final warning telling her to stop communicating with, and harassing, your family. If she continues to do so after the warning, go through the proper procedure to get a restraining order.
But, most importantly, stop communicating with her. Even if she sends a response to the request to end communications, do not respond.|||I think he did sleep with her, he did not call her again.
She wants to make his life hell for being used Your husband should have never gave her his number in the first place.
He should tell her he is sorry for using her, then she might leave you guys alone.|||The one to knock this silly nonsense on the head is your husband, and the best way to do it is by making an obvious show of not taking her seriously. If she calls him and tells him that she and him are meant to be together, etc. he should burst out laughing and say something like: %26quot;You are truly funny, where do you come up with stuff like that? You should do stand-up comedy.%26quot; or %26quot;If you%26#039;re going to be sending plane tickets, why don%26#039;t you make it tickets to Disneyland for myself and my family?%26quot;|||I think there is more to it, He is not telling you.|||First of all, you should be just as pissed at your husband as you are towards her.It seems like YOU are the one trying to take the necessary steps to get rid of this woman.HE is the one who had some sort of relationship with this woman, so it is HIS job to diffuse the situation.Tell him to grow some balls or better yet ,let him borrow yours!!!|||Block her from your emails. He can also block her from his cell phone.|||the police already told you what you can do...and you%26#039;re not willing to go to Virginia...so then stop crying about it...and deal with the crap..since you can%26#039;t make the effort in following even the cops advice....and you%26#039;re also wrong for do that to her myspace...you%26#039;re just adding more drama to this Crap...you%26#039;re the one that %26#039;s looking a little bit nuts...to go to that point..whatever...good luck...most paid searches still won%26#039;t give the phone number...did this looking for family members...my aunt does work for Bellsouth...I know that unless you tell the phone company you want you%26#039;re number unlisted..then it will be avail by calling 411...again call phone co. and make sure you guys have chosen to be unlisted..both from the phone book and 411
