Wednesday 21 September 2011

What is the best way to "let someone go"....you know you need?

to for many reasons...but...you cannot confront her...because you have seen how she confronts people in a hostile and aggressive way...so i feel one way is to never return her calls or move on and change your phone number...Now remember she is NOT a best friend...and she will rebuke you in an aggressive way...and i'd rather not fight...because it would end on a hostile note!!!What is the best way to %26quot;let someone go%26quot;....you know you need?whatever u F'en wimp grow up and take it like a man.
What is the best way to %26quot;let someone go%26quot;....you know you need?
first, do not do it w/ any hard feelings. u wanted to be her friend, but she is hostile. so already the problem is her, not you. u cannot change her. u can only change yourself. so if u have to stop answering her phone calls, etc, that's one way u can change ur behavior. and not because u are trying to hurt her, but because u are trying to move on.



but, if she ever tries to apologize, or become friends w/ you, u have to remember not to hold it against her what has happened in the past. be distant, but not with a grudge. people can change, they just have to do it on their on and on their own time. stop thinking of her as a horrible person, and just understand that she has reasons beyond her control that force her to act out towards other people in negative way, which is why u need to put distance between u two. of course at first, u feel that u are %26quot;right%26quot; and she is %26quot;wrong.%26quot; but the more time that goes by, if u continue to try to do what is right for urself and the poeple around u, and stick to positive things, u will realize there is no resentment there. maybe disappointment, and sadness it didn't work out in a good way, but no hurt or resentment because YOU can let it go. she needs to work on her ability to do the same.
What is the best way to %26quot;let someone go%26quot;....you know you need?
have her take angry management classes,lol