He has been playing with me and to-ing and fro-ing since last summer. %26quot;I don't love her, please believe me, bear with me%26quot; etc. The LAST thing I am is a gameplayer BUT I AM VERY WEAK AND MISS HIM.
I would never, ever have sex with someone who is with another woman. But he really made me believe that he was %26quot;seeing where things went%26quot; with everything. Please don't write him off as %26quot;he's a player%26quot;. He genuinely seemed to miss me.
Recently he told me he saw his future with me and I was ecstatic as I always believed he'd come back to me one day, and all my patient waiting was over. HOWEVER he then changed his mind the week after - he wants to make it work with his wife. I did NOT appreciate being messed about, especially as I finally thought %26quot;he's come to me, it'll all end FINALLY. I get to be happy%26quot; (after all, his wife had no qualms about taking him from ME the year before).
I was so, so heartbroken, that I sent him a letter and told him how much he'd hurt me, and that he knows and I know he said he wanted me back, even though he tried to play that down when we met a few days ago. FOOLISHLY I left my number at the end of the letter, as a %26quot;if you change your mind%26quot; sort of thing. He has no other way to contact me, as I am not on facebook and he hasn't got my email address.
Now I feel like he has all the power and am constantly looking at my phone. How am I meant to move on if I have made this stupid mistake? I cannot change the number as I have too many work-related contacts.I foolishly gave my ex my phone number when we said goodbye - now I feel there's still a %26quot;bind%26quot; or %26quot;tie%26quot;.?Never, ever see him or talk to him again. Walk past him with your nose in the air. He's an idiot.I foolishly gave my ex my phone number when we said goodbye - now I feel there's still a %26quot;bind%26quot; or %26quot;tie%26quot;.?This sort of misery is the consequences when you choose to be someone without morals. He is a married man. Maybe you will GET IT when you are married someday and a woman comes along and decides she wants what you have.I foolishly gave my ex my phone number when we said goodbye - now I feel there's still a %26quot;bind%26quot; or %26quot;tie%26quot;.?Just because he calls does not mean you have to answer. When he calls, just remember all the grief he's put you through and ignore the call.my baby daddy one time his homeboy had a female who kept calling so they had me get on the phone and i pretend i was having his baby and told her not to call no more. put an end to all thatblock his number so he can't call and text you. If you don't know how to do this then contact your provider and they will show you.
just delete and ignore his messages and when you see that it's him calling just don't answer. If he still manages to slip a call past you then tell him it was a mistake to tell him to contact you and tell him stop calling you and go away. then hang up. Do not engage him or he'll keep calling until he wears you down.To %26quot;Artist Twin%26quot; - what about the MARRIED MAN'S morals? Are you one of those who points all the blame onto the %26quot;other woman%26quot;? I don't see where Melina was with the man AT THE SAME TIME he was with his THEN-EX wife. MILLIONS of people are in separated/recently divorced/nearly divorced situations.
I wish life were so black and white in my world.Sorry but u just move on.. phone number or not.. u need to end this.. he's married plain and simple.. you should of never gotten involved with a married man to begin with.. that was your big mistake .. even though he may of been seperated he was still tied to her, and HE made the choice to go back to his wife .. she just gave him the open door to do it.. so to try and use the %26quot; well she stole him from me%26quot; .. b.s he wasnt yours to begin with and if he loved u so much and if it was so %26quot;serious%26quot; he wouldnt be stringing u along like an idiot that u are being, he'd actually be with u ... your his %26quot;i dont want to be alone if this doesnt work person%26quot; your his back up plan.. but as sure as im typing this i guarantee u , even if they broke up again , and he were to come back to u .. it would only be short lived, he'd eventually either go back to her, or move on to someone else.. you just the %26quot;rebound%26quot; girl.. nothing more.. and your to close to the situation emotionally to see that he is using you.. when things are good between him and his wife, im betting u hardly hear from him, its only when he's either fighting with her, or he's not happy with whats going on in his marriage does he start showing u attention and then when things get better he takes it back or disposes of u once again.. Stop being the fool.. stop caring if he calls or contacts u and even if he does call u should ignore or block his call.. %26quot;IF%26quot; he really wants u , he should be fighting to be with u , not fighting for his marriage, he made his choice.. your just the ego booster, the back up plan, the just incase person.. and wouldnt u rather be number one to someone then always number 2? You deserve to be happy and not this guys emotional puppet... thats not love.. thats being used..This is a tough one. I've been in a situation similar to this before. You have to understand that the to-ing and fro-ing is his way to keep you around and keep you guessing/hoping that something will come of it. And it has worked in this case. You have to understand that for the time being, he's with his ex wife. The only way to move on is to do just that, find someone else or find a hobby to keep your mind off of him. As for the %26quot;I'm thinking about our future together%26quot; if he ever says that again, decline it. He shouldn't be thinking of your future with him until he doesn't have a future with the woman he's with. If it's right, he'll leave her. Don't get your hopes up until it's over between them.Block his phone number. You already know this guy isn't ready to commit so don't be so eager. He doesn't have the power, you do. Put him on the back burner and quit being so available. I bet he'll start missing you once he stops hearing from you. Good luck.What are you out of your mind? Was you having a weak moment? Wait to see if he calls and have his number blocked. But first when he does call. Put your big-girl shoes on and tell him you made a mistake and don't think that it would be a good idea to talk to each other any more, Enough has been said and done. Thank-you, Good-bye and have a nice life. The End.
