I was dating a guy who is out of town and we were speaking on the phone regularly. There was a break in communication from him, for a week and then he emailed me and said he he'd lost my number, and asking me to call him. I waited a couple of days (wondering %26quot;how%26quot; he could have %26quot;lost%26quot; my number) and received another email saing once again, I lost your number, please call, I miss you.
So I gave in and called him. He said something about changing phones and the number being on the phone not the sim card. Anyhow he was very keen sounding during the call and said how much he missed me etc.... Now I havent had a call or an email for two weeks !
Why did he chase me for my number if he wasnt interested, when he could have let it go at that and why continue saying he missed me etc..?
Im confused, can anyone give an opinion ?Guys please give me your opinion .......?Its like fishing, hey tosses out the line and you bite on the sparkly lure. He will contact you again just to keep you in play. If you have not figured it out yet, you are more than likely one of a few in play. The way he maybe going is to set you up to be more in play later if one of the others are on the way out. As your status moves up you will here from him more.Guys please give me your opinion .......?Get rid of him. No one is worth fretting about in this day.Guys please give me your opinion .......?Im sure any guy would be lucky to have your phone number. Some guys dont know what they have.Sounds like he's stringing you along, you'll see him when he gets back in town.Well sounds like he might just be cheating. A way to find out is if you ever get a chance to see his phone check out the #'s hes called and right them down then call... hard but one way top find out... your welcome for the help if i did help. your welcome to PM me if you want some more info... i hate cheats.very confusing, he is dumb to %26quot;lose%26quot; your number or what it seems his phone. I'm glad it didn't continue, didn't seem right for you. But to answer your question, there is no real explanation. He is either way too busy and unorganized or he doesnt care and not intersted. This sounds like something that doesnt offer a clear explanation as to why he did that to you. I've had a girl seem so intersted in me and we talked much like you did with him, and for some odd reason she stopped communicating. So I just let it go, something not worth wondering why, had better things to do.call him to figure out.
Something wrong might happened to him Or He might be a shy person
OR anything else, just call him to figure out.Evidently that guy is lie. Quit him the sooner the better. u are too.innocent.Hi there,Well I just had a ciggy%26amp;mulled this over.I'll relate my story to you,ok?A couple of weeks ago I met a girl,beautiful,open,funny...what's not to like!I had half a buzz on,feeling good,confident...all was right in the world.I gave her my#,w/no real expectations,she Actually called,UhOh,F**King w/my low self esteem!I just ended a long term relationship approx.7mos.ago%26amp;this was the 1st girl I flirted w/since that!Once my personal smoke cleared I found that I was .....alot of emotions that I hadn't realized....really ready to deal w/someone new.I had called her back a couple of times,good convo's but I still was confused about where my head was in relation to my heart(and also other parts further south...yeah,of course that came into play!!!).So anyway,I played the old phone/sim card/+ water/major explosion/lost your# couldn't call you/voicebox fell out B.S. routine for about a week.Thank God I grabbed myself by the balls,called her back,explained my situation%26amp;apologized!She was very cool about the whole thing,%26amp; we both felt better in the end.So that being said,Who knows what's up w/ this guy?there are obviously a million different variables in this equation,the only constant though is YOU.People do stupid,thoughtless,immature,selfish,thin鈥?%26amp;as the situation snowballs it seems more%26amp;more overwhelming,hence not having the courage%26amp;character to face the issue at hand.Be assured that this guy is sitting w/a ball of guilt in his gut,%26amp; if not he's probably a soul-less dopelganger not worth another thought.Be grateful it didn't go any further!This is also a good life lesson in tolerance,compassion,%26amp;self-assuredness.I hope everything works out for you,Namaste,KDdump him. he has another girlfriend, and you are now on his list, whenever you call him.