My fiance and I are having difficulties with an ex-boyfriend who is starting to stalk her and is contacting me and trying to get me to break up with her by filling my head with B.S. I was a Marine and my first instincts are to confront him with physical contact. I know the police can keep him away, but they can't stop all the e-mails, text messages, phone calls, etc. I need a quick remedy because short of stomping a mudhole in his a**, I don't know what to do. She has tried everything, changed phone number, moved, but he still seems find her.How do you get rid of your girlfriends psycho ex-boyfriend without taking his life?If you keep a record of all the messages he has sent you and your fiance take him to court and get a restraining order.. They can make them stop.. and if he does it again he can be arrested for stalking and breaking the order..
Don't beat him up cause from the way he sounds you will be the one who will get into trouble..
Speak to the police and a lawyerHow do you get rid of your girlfriends psycho ex-boyfriend without taking his life?Have her file a restraining order at the police department and then report it every time he comes close by. Also have her take pictures of him every time he is too close.
If you approach him, you will end up killing him and that would not be so good for you and your freedom, not that I would blame you for it.
Take care,
TroyHow do you get rid of your girlfriends psycho ex-boyfriend without taking his life?Check the stalker laws where you live. Get a restraining order and then press charges if/ when he breaks it. You say the cops can stop him, so let them do it. change the email and phone numbers and keep changing them You can get an unlisted number for your phone. Keep the police informed even if they do nothing you might need to have a case built up against this guy. Should he come near her or become confrontational in any way, if he is in a place he has no right to be, anything at all that could be a viable excuse and then you light him up and put the fear of God and the Marines into his heart.You need to start with a restraining order that includes a cease and desist of any and all contact. You need to contact the police and discuss with them your options in this. The very last thing you want is a confrontation because you are the one who will land in jail. Stalking laws vary from state to state, but they are becoming much harsher on the stalkers.Try to ignore him , call the cops , don't go stomping his A** that's what he wants you to do so you look like the jerk..Don't even acknowledge his existance Ignore him and let him keep doing this crap and he will screw up big time eventually , he is playing a mind game with you two and the more you let it bug you the more he wins...Sounds like this guy needs some fear put into him. You being an ex-Marine, you could probably put a hurtin' on him if you had to. Ask him if he values his ability to walk, talk, and eat solid foods. Explain that he will lose these priviliges if he continues.get rid of her. Problem solvedChange all phone numbers and emails and think about moving.You can BLOCK him from email, text messages and phone calls.
If you don't have that feature on your cell, call your provider.
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